Frequently Asked Questions

Why do I need to provide identification?

This is purely for my safety, and my eyes only. If I feel unsafe, I am unable to offer you a truly indulgent and engaging experience. Discretion is one of my top priorities; after our session, your identification information will be deleted. I require identification in the form of a mobile phone, business or personal phone number, and I must be able to verify this number. If I require a license, passport or proof of identity card, you may block out the ID number and your address, but not your name or face. See my bookings page for more information.

Why do I need to pay a deposit?

My time is extremely valuable. If I arrange a session and go to the trouble of dressing up and setting up your fantasy, and you decide not to show, it's disrespectful and poor form! The deposit is there to ensure that I am covered for some expenses, should something go wrong. The deposit is deductible from the overall fee of our session. I understand that emergencies happen; if given enough notice, the deposit may be refunded or used for future sessions at my discretion. Please see my bookings page for further information.


Please be assured that I am a professional dominatrix and am certainly not interested in 'running away' with your deposit when seeing you as a subordinate will be much more beneficial for both of us.

How will you be dressed?

I do not usually take outfit requests, unless the occasion is very specific and the outfit is bought for me prior to the booking. If I am meeting you in public, I will dress conservatively.

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Are those scars on your arm?

Yes. I got them in an accident about five years ago. They don't hurt me, and they can't hurt you. If you would like to know further details on how they came about, I am more than happy to tell you during our time together - although I imagine you'll have other things on your mind. They are a part of me and a part of my life, and I am not bothered by questions about them in-person.

I am disabled or otherwise incapacitated. Can you cater to me?

Yes! I will need you to discuss your needs with me so I can be sure the room is completely accessible to you. I will also need a brief description of your condition so I can plan ahead how best to cater to your needs. Please let me know when enquiring if you are on a government pension or with the DVA and provide proof of pension/DVA card, and I will discount our session by 10%. I require you to bring this ID with you to the session, too.

What is considered 'Light' Domme?

I consider the following experiences light:


  • Light bondage restraints
  • Some impact play (soft floggers, soft paddles, special canes)
  • Some sensory deprivation (eyesight, speech)
  • Teasing and denial
  • Clothed face/body sitting
  • Spanking
  • Minor anal play (beginner toys, not strap-on)
  • Foot/boot worship
  • Mindfucking
  • Financial domination - to be discussed prior
  • Light verbal domination
  • Orgasm denial
  • Begging
  • Some roleplay - to be discussed


Please note this list is not exhaustive, and it is at my discretion as to whether or not I consider an experience light or heavy. My definition may vary from those of other dominants. Please contact me if you are unsure as to where your kink fits on the spectrum.

What is considered 'Heavy' Domme?

I consider the following experiences heavy:


  • Heavy-duty bondage restraints, including rope, chain, or positioning restraints
  • Hard impact play, including flogging, caning, whipping and paddling with different instruments.
  • Heavy sensory deprivation (sight, speech, hearing, touch)
  • Ballbusting
  • Cock, ball & nipple torture
  • Forced chastity, long and short-term
  • Pegging with strap-on and insertables of various lengths
  • Golden showers
  • Spitting and degradation - to be discussed
  • Ruined orgasms
  • Wax play
  • Pet/puppy play
  • Cross-dressing
  • Consensual forced bisexual
  • Body-hair shaving
  • Long-term training


 Please note this list is not exhaustive, and it is at my discretion as to whether or not I consider an experience light or heavy. My definition may vary from those of other dominants. Please contact me if you are unsure as to where your kink fits on the spectrum. 

What are your limits?

I do not offer vanilla sexual service. You may not touch me without permission. Do not expect any penetrative sexual service from me. My body is for worshipping, not for your use. Your pleasure is at my discretion. I also do not offer:


  • Unclothed facesitting
  • Some roleplay, including ABDL and ABDL sessions
  • Scat
  • Experiences with parties that are unable to consent, including animals


These limits are not up for negotiation; doing so will get you blocked.

Do I need to bring a gift with me?

Gifts are always appreciated and remembered, but are not mandatory. My favourite gifts are giftcards to Sephora, Mecca, and Honey Birdette, as well as giftcards to gaming/electronic stores. I adore peonies and roses. I love luxury chocolate from Koko Black.